6 Lovers
​The Lovers card represents unity, harmony, love, and attraction. It often symbolizes finding balance within yourself, gaining clarity about your personal values, and understanding your moral compass. This self-awareness brings a sense of harmony and equilibrium to your life.
When The Lovers appears, it indicates that you are at a crossroads, faced with significant decisions or dilemmas. You might feel uncertain about certain situations, relationships, or the direction to take. These choices are crucial, so avoid opting for the easiest path. Take time to gather all the necessary information and make thoughtful decisions. Though the journey may seem challenging, it will ultimately lead to growth and greater opportunities.
Upright Meaning Guide
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Upright Keyword Meanings:
Love, soulmates, kindred spirits, perfect unions, partnerships, relationships, major choices, romance, desire, sexual connections, shared values, attraction, choices, balance, commitment, desire, alignment of values. duality, emotional connection, twin flames, past lives, union, pregnancy, marriage, life path
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General Meaning Interpretation (Upright)
The Lovers signifies perfect union, harmony, love, and attraction. It can also represent finding balance within yourself. You are learning to understand who you are, your personal moral code, and what you truly value in life, bringing greater harmony and balance overall. When The Lovers Tarot card appears, it often indicates that you are facing major choices or a significant dilemma. You may feel uncertain about certain situations, people in your life, or which direction to take. These decisions are important, so don’t automatically choose the easiest path. Make sure you have all the information needed to make the right choice. Even if it feels like the more difficult road, it will ultimately lead you to greater things.
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Love & Relationships (Upright)
In a love or relationship Tarot reading, The Lovers is one of the most positive cards you can receive. It represents soulmates, kindred spirits, shared values, passion, and a powerful deep bond between two people.
If you’re single, this card indicates that love is on its way to you soon. This won’t just be fleeting infatuation it will come with intense attraction, sexual passion, romance, and a deep sense of connection and understanding.
If you’re already in a relationship, The Lovers suggests a rekindling of romance. Your bond with your partner will grow stronger and deeper than you could imagine. The Lovers signify a spiritual, emotional, mental, and physical connection that many couples only dream of. Consider yourself blessed.
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Money & Career (Upright)
In a career context, it often signifies a strong business partnership between two people. If it represents a partnership, it indicates a positive and mutually beneficial relationship. You and your business partner are on the same wavelength, working well together and supporting each other’s goals. The Lovers can also suggest the possibility of becoming romantically involved with a work colleague. Be cautious if this arises; mixing business with pleasure can bring complications, so ensure you’re aware of the risks and ready to handle any consequences. Additionally, The Lovers can point to a significant decision regarding your career path. While it may seem like your options are undesirable, that is not necessarily true. Take time to gather all the facts before deciding. This card can also indicate a major change in your career or a job shift that might feel uncomfortable at first but will ultimately benefit you. Financially, it’s an auspicious time to seek out new opportunities, as you are attracting good fortune.
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Health (Upright)
In a health reading, The Lovers indicates that having the right support system will help you navigate any health issues. This support may come from a partner, friend, or even a doctor or healthcare provider offering guidance and care. The Lovers can also suggest that you have important decisions to make regarding a treatment plan or health choices. Additionally, this card is sometimes linked to heart health, so it serves as a reminder to take good care of your heart and overall well-being when it appears in your reading.
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Spirituality (Upright)
In a spiritual context, it suggests you are beginning to find greater harmony within yourself. This comes from gaining a deeper understanding of who you are and your personal moral code, leading to a stronger connection with your spiritual self. The Lovers can also indicate that partnering with someone on your spiritual journey may be beneficial. Even something as simple as taking a meditation class with a like-minded friend could greatly support your growth at this time.
Reversed Meaning Guide
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Lovers Reversed Keyword Meanings:
Disharmony, trust issues, imbalance, conflict, disconnection, lack of accountability, detachment, infidelity, disloyalty, separation, misalignment of values, indecision, temptation, relationships struggles, lack of commitment, unhealthy relationships, poor choices, betrayal, communication breakdown
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General Meaning and Interpretation(Reversed)​
The Lovers Tarot reversed indicates that you may be struggling to take ownership of the decisions you’ve made, leading to inner conflict. You might feel uncertain about the direction your life is taking. Remember, you are the master of your own destiny. Don’t blame the universe if your situation is the result of your own choices. Instead, hold yourself accountable, learn from your past mistakes, and let them go. Doing so will allow you to move forward in a positive direction. This process will help you gain a deeper understanding of your true self, your values, and your beliefs, and prevent you from repeating the same mistakes in the future.
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Love & Relationships (Reversed)
In a love reading, The Lovers reversed can indicate that while the sexual aspect is still strong, you and your partner may not be on the same page in other important areas. It may suggest that one partner is more emotionally invested than the other. Fear or trust issues could be preventing you from fully committing, which is necessary for the relationship to thrive. You might have different goals, values, or visions for the future. The relationship may have begun with a strong connection on many levels, but now you don’t feel as close as you once did. Look to supporting cards to confirm the root cause. Whatever the issue, these differences need to be addressed if the relationship is to survive.
If you are single, The Lovers reversed indicates that a relationship is on its way, but it may not arrive as soon as you hope. Alternatively, it can suggest choosing partners for the wrong reasons. If you are considering getting involved with someone, this Major Arcana card advises making sure you connect with them on multiple levels. A sexual connection, no matter how intense, is not enough by itself to sustain a relationship.
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​Money & Career (Reversed)
In a career context, The Lovers Tarot reversed in a career context can indicate disharmony within a business partnership. If you have a business partner, it’s important to communicate clearly and ensure you’re both aligned on the direction of the business and your goals for the future. Similar to the upright meaning, The Lovers reversed can also suggest the possibility of a workplace romance, but it comes with a strong warning. This relationship could cause problems for your career. Be cautious and make sure you fully understand and are prepared for the consequences of mixing business with pleasure if things go wrong.
Financially, The Lovers reversed can indicate being financially irresponsible or making impulsive decisions with money. It may reflect materialism and seeking instant gratification through material means. Be accountable for your choices, and take lessons from past mistakes to avoid repeating them.
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Health (Reversed)
In a health context, The Lovers Tarot card reversed indicates that you need to reconnect with your body to restore harmony and well-being. Right now, you may feel as though your body is working against you, but it’s important to be kind to yourself and honor your current energy levels. Remember, your body is capable of incredible things, but it also needs rest and time to recover. Avoid frustration with your body—give it the care and patience it needs to heal.
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Spirituality (Reversed)
In a spiritual context, The Lovers reversed can indicate that you’ve been focusing on material pursuits to find fulfillment. While these may bring temporary satisfaction, they will not give you the true harmony you’re seeking. Instead, shift your focus to your spiritual path and discovering your authentic self—it will be far more rewarding. The Lovers reversed can also suggest a sexual attraction between you and a spiritual advisor. If this person is seeking an intimate relationship with you, it may be for the wrong reasons. Entering into a romance with them suggests an abuse of their power. Remember, their role is to guide you spiritually, not to pursue you romantically. Be very cautious.
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